Cara asked me to guest write for her marriage blog. I replied with, "Uh - what on earth do I say?" Or something along those lines.
I very rarely write, blog, create about my marriage. Only my close friends know the ins and outs, and I am okay with that.
The internet can be used to create different selfs, people can portray what they want to portray, become someone they aren't necessarily IRL. I decided that rather than portray my marriage as rainbows and fairydust - which it certainly is not. Or deal with the other side of that, portraying it the way it is - separation and all, I would just not portray it. And that's pretty much how it will continue to be.
The two part article that I wrote for Cara leaves out a lot. There is a lot of censoring. And it it my side of the coin. But it is a small glimpse into the married part of me.
And it does underline my belief in commitment, and the choice to commit.
I just happened to get lucky and chose a patient Geekboy.